Someone was expressing their jealousy at a success of mine. They tried to tell me I was just lucky.

This comic explains the process much better than the verbal barrage of profanity that they got.

To summarize: 20 years ago I decided I wanted something. Every action I have taken in the last 20 years has been calculated to bring me closer to that objective.

Every decision, every action, no exception, all the time, for 20 years

That is what it takes.